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  1. Gurudev, How do I know if a relationship is good for me or not? Is he just pushing my buttons and I need to learn from this, or is he just not good for me?

    Well I have no experience in this, so I can’t tell you.
    Before you judge someone else first see how you relate to them. How big a heart you have, how much you can accommodate a person, and how much you can influence someone to change. This is what you ...
  2. Gurudev, How to love people even if you don’t like them?

    Oh, I don’t have an experience of this but I can still try to give you an answer.
    Don’t try to love them. First stop disliking them.
    Why you dislike them? Because of some qualities.
    Now imagine why they have those qualities; because of lack ...
  3. Gurudev, What to do if I cannot let go of a very painful relationship? I just cannot let go.

    Okay, what can you do? Hold on to it!
    How much can you hold on? Sooner or later you have to let go and the faster you do it, the better it is. And what can help you to do it faster is wisdom. Wake up and see everything is changing. Meditation will de ...
  4. Gurudev, how to help people or relatives that are very ill? How can we ease their pain?

    Your meditations will help. After meditating, send your vibrations to them. That will help them. ...
  5. Gurudev, I know that my parents love me but are not very affectionate. They do not express their affection the way I like it to be shown. How can I deal with these feelings and not be bothered by their actions?

    Don’t give it too much importance. Move on!
    In life these events happen, such occasions come. Such negativity comes, pleasantness comes; so what! None of them will stay forever, they come for a minute and they go.
    As I said, wisdom or yoga is a w ...
  6. Gurudev, How to stop my wife from talking in a bad way to me without any reason?

    Well, that is a challenge! If she is talking bad about you without reason, you tell her you will give her a reason! ...
  7. Gurudev, Q: Why do people underestimate talent considering a previous mistake?

    You have answered your own question. You have talent, but when you have made a mistake, they are apprehensive because each mistake can cost a lot to a company or to a person. So, you will have to reassure them that a mistake will not happen and you will us ...
  8. Gurudev, my best friend fell in love with my girlfriend. Now they both are together. I am feeling lost. Can you help me?

    Remember, there is a proverb, 'whatever is yours will always come back to you.’
    If it is not yours, you just move on and look for something which is yours. ...
  9. Gurudev, Q: Please save me Guruji. I lied (it is a long story) and came for the Advanced Course and now my boss has found out that I am at the Ashram. What should I do to save myself from the wrath of my bosses?

    If you have taken a sick leave or if you have said, ‘I am sick’, you can justify it.
    Sickness is not only physical but it can be mental and spiritual as well, because many times people are spiritually sick.
    Whenever you are not happy, that means ...
  10. Gurudev, I have read in one of your book, ‘God Loves Fun’, that we should not try to possess what we love. Does that also mean that we should not marry the one we love? Is marriage also possession?

    I never said that! Choice is yours and blessing is mine.
    Whether before marriage or after marriage, if you are too possessive then the other person will run away.
    Trying to control somebody, possess somebody may not be a very intelligent idea. ...
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