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  1. Gurudev, I went to the World Book Fair today and I bought the Bhagvad Gita. Earlier I used to read only romance or action. Now my mother is worried if everything is okay with me. What should I tell her?

    Tell her it is absolutely fine! The train is on track. The situation has become such that amongst those who do wrong, the one who does something right becomes the odd one out. It is like the saying, ‘The one who wears clothes in a village of naked ...
  2. Gurudev, all of us seem to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but very few have an idea about their own lives. Why is it so and what can we do about it?

    Now, are you talking about yourself, or your spouse, or someone else? Of course, your spouse will give you ideas on how you should be living and what you should be doing, and your mother will give you advice, your sister will dictate you, and your dau ...
  3. Gurudev, there is a new problem in my life because of Facebook and Internet. My wife gets upset when she sees female friends on my friend list, but when my wife makes male friends on the net, she does it without any hesitation. How to tackle this?

    Well, you know I have no experience to handle these situations. You must ask your friends only, they may give some ideas. Or why not ask your own wife? Ask her how to solve this. You know, there is a proverb, ‘give the keys to the thief and make the ...
  4. Why do we need to choose a life partner Guruji? Life would be much simpler if we loved everyone or no one.

    Now, tell me what is your trouble? Do you have a partner or not? Then I will tell you. Or someone whom you are seeing, your girlfriend is asking you to choose and marry?! I know what is happening! You cannot ask me indirect questions and use it. (Laughter) ...
  5. Gurudev, I am in love with a girl who wants me to prove my love to her by asking for expensive gifts. You had said that love is absolutely free, but this one turned out to be extremely expensive for me!

    Come child, just learn the lesson! What love and friendship is, you will learn within a few days, as you grow older. Maybe she is testing you to see how much you can sacrifice. Love does demand sacrifice. So maybe she wants to see how miserly or gener ...
  6. Gurudev, you have told us how to be in a relationship. Please tell us how to come out of the relationship.

    You have already come out of it! When you want to come out of it, it is already gone, it's already done! Isn't it? Main thing is to relate yourself to the universe, to the Divinity. If you have a relationship with the Divine, you have a relationship w ...
  7. Gurudev, did your mother scold you? Please teach me how to control my temper. I really lose my temper at my mother very often.

    Yes, my mother used to scold me a lot! Do one thing. Everyday go and bow down in front of your mother. If you get angry at her one day, you will have to do pranaam the following day anyway. If you touch your mother's feet everyday and seek her blessings, e ...
  8. Gurudev, is it true that the relationship of a wife and husband lasts seven lifetimes? If this is true, I want moksha in this lifetime itself because in seven lifetimes I will become too frustrated!

    My dear, how do you know if this isn't the seventh one already! It might also be the sixth or the first. Just pray! Ask your wife also how she is faring. You are so frustrated, so ask your partner how frustrated or happy she is. It is impossible for o ...
  9. Is it true that when we meet a person for the first time and start feeling some spiritual connection, we have met them in a past life?

    It is possible. One thing, in an energy like this when we are all meditating, you may suddenly feel attracted to this person and that person, but don’t go by that. These attractions may be because you are in a different space and they are in a differe ...
  10. I feel I am a very loving person and I have a lot of love to give. All I ever wanted was to get married and have my own family and children, but it hasn’t happened even after so many years. How can I attract love and marriage to manifest in my life?

    Well, I don’t know. Not that there are no loving people, not that there are no single men and women. There are, but may be you are too choosy. If you think you are very loving, you find the other person not so loving. You’ll try to find faults in othe ...
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