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  1. Gurudev, What is the dharma of marriage?

    Ask your spouse! They will give you long lectures on what your dharma is and what you should be doing! (Audience laughs).Our ancient people spoke about saptapadi – the seven steps one takes in life. The knowledge was so scientific even 1,000s of years a ...

  2. Gurudev, What is the golden rule of a happy married life?

    Well, I am not qualified to say anything, but let me think. Why don’t you sit with those who are happily married? What I have heard is:

    Before marriage: a couple is mad for each other!

    During marriage: They are made for each other!

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  3. Gurudev, If somebody is being guilty for the wrong done but may be because of ego He is not able to talk, what should one do?

    You being in victim consciousness and having rage and anger, does it help you any way to carry on your life? Absolutely not! Waste of time, waste of your potential and life. So we must forgive, forget and move on. You hurt someone in the past and somebo ...

  4. Gurudev, Can love happen twice? Husband and wife are already in a relationship? Can husband or wife start loving someone else?

    Tell me are you single or married? Ok, so you are single. If you are married and your wife tells you that she loves someone else, then how will you feel? (I will feel bad.) If you flirt with someone else, she will feel the same. Once you decide to get m ...

  5. Gurudev, How to decide that enough is enough? I have a child and want to go for a divorce.

    Ask yourself if you have given 100 percent? If the mind says no, and you have given your 80 percent or even 95 percent, then wait till you give your 100 percent. Even better, give your 101 percent for the sake of the children. A little sacrifice for the ch ...
  6. Gurudev, How do you distinguish between intuitive powers and ego driven power while making a decision?

    Intuitive power is like a gut feeling and to get clear intuitive power you must mediate. Without meditation, your intuition will go haywire; it won’t be intuition at all. ...
  7. Gurudev, How do I forgive? I find it difficult to let lose off the grudges.

    There are 6.5 billion people on this planet. Don’t forgive the 6.5 billon but just forgive this one person. You know, inside every culprit there is a victim crying for help. You must know they are victim of situation and circumstances. They might have don ...
  8. Gurudev, could you please give me an answer? Is the man I’m in love with since one year is the right one for me?

    Well! You are in deep love with somebody, so that person must be right for now. But whether he continues to be right in future, nobody can say. It depends on you! How you handle. You are in love with some body, but is he in love with you or not? First you ...
  9. Gurudev, Is it possible to love and stay strong? Is it possible to love and stay reasonable? Is it possible to be in love and stay dispassionate? Is it possible to be in love and be free from jealousy and possession?

    Definitely. It is possible to stay in such a state of love without any of these negative connotations with that – if there is wisdom. Love with wisdom is bliss. Love minus wisdom is what you have mentioned; all this jealousy, greed, all this paraphernalia. ...
  10. Gurudev, How to deal with and work with the people who have negative qualities like aggression, jealousy, instability and so on?

    Skillfully. See that you don’t react to them but with compassion, see how you can work with them. Yeah? One thing is it can improve your skills. Second is it can improve your patience. You can gain patience. Third is it will make you realize that the perso ...
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