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  1. Gurudev, how to make my home a place of happiness. Even on weekends my wife picks up arguments.

    You know what? I’ll give you an advice. Take turns in an argument, don’t do it at the same time. You argue on Monday, let her argue on Sunday! And you keep smiling. You know, an argument cannot be countered with an argument. Questions cannot be replied wit ...
  2. Gurudev, Do you think that the majority of our problems come from our relationship with our parents as the psychologists think?

    No, major problems come because of your own mind. Don’t cling that onto the parents, poor things.

    Few years back, a young girl came to me with her parents. The girl was past her teenage, around 21-22 years old, and she had such a good relationship with ...

  3. Gurudev, Do you really think that it is possible to stop hating someone?

    Don’t stop hating, keep hating them. Do what you find easiest my dear! If doing something is bothering you, and you are finding it so difficult to do, then why do it.
    If you do something difficult and you still become miserable, what is the point? Do ...
  4. Gurudev, After a couple of failed relationships, how do I overcome the desire to be in another relationship. I feel guilty when I wish I had a partner, because in the past I have failed.

    Okay, there are two things that you can do.
    1. If you feel that it (relationship) is not for you then move on, move alone like a lion.
    2. If you feel that you really need it, then try again till you succeed. Keep trying all your life, till you go ...
  5. Gurudev, My colleagues always manage to take my energy away. What can I do to not lose my energy?

    Never mind, give them more! You have much more energy than what they can all take from you. The Sun or the Moon never say that you’re taking my light away! You are the source of energy.
    I am with you. I give you perennial replenishment of energ ...
  6. Gurudev, I want to be honest with my parents about my sexuality. Yet my fear of losing their love and support has been stopping me from being honest with them. Do I need to be compassionate and not burden my parents? Please guide me to a solution.

    You don’t have to label yourself as gay or a lesbian. You don’t need to put on a label. These are tendencies which come and go.
    You should label yourself as Divine light. This label is much better than putting a label about your sexuality becaus ...
  7. Gurudev, Is having two relationships wrong? Is it necessary to get physical in a relationship?

    Listen, would you like your spouse, or boyfriend, or girlfriend to have two relationships? First you answer that!
    What you are doing, would you like someone else to do the same thing to you? Can you accept it? Your mind will say no! Right?
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  8. Gurudev, I am scared of commitment. How do I get over that?

    Interact with someone who is not committed to you.
    For example, someone tells you, ‘I will take you to a movie tomorrow’, and never shows up, or promises that he will bring some notes or books to you, but doesn't show up the next day. Just put yoursel ...
  9. Gurudev, I am gay. Is it wrong?

    No! If the tendency is in you, just accept it. Why do you want to blame yourself? It is a biological tendency. Why do you have to be ashamed of it? Just accept it!

    You don’t need to label yourself, ‘I am a gay’. These tendencies come and go. Maybe afte ...

  10. Gurudev, How should I forget my ex-boyfriend?

    One fine morning, maybe tomorrow morning, you wake up and see that there are 7 billion people on this planet. Of these 7 billion, nearly half of them are men, which is 3.5 billion. Of the 3.5 billion, maybe 1 billion are old people. So leave them out.
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