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  1. Dealing with blame and accusation

    When someone blames you, you feel a heavy load on your head, and when you talk about it you spread the unpleasant feeling all around you. At this moment wake up and see you are Being and nothing can touch you. This is all just a drama, which you yourself ...
  2. Blaming and Misery

    When a worldly man is miserable, he blames the people around him, the system, and the world in general. When a seeker is miserable he, of course, blames the world, but in addition he blames the path, the Knowledge, and himself. It is better not to be a se ...
  3. Dealing with blame

    When someone blames you, what do you usually do? Blame them back or you put up resistance in yourself. When someone blames you, they actually take away some negative karma from you. If you understand this and don't put up resistance and feel happy ab ...
  4. If you are pure in your intention and action and yet you are perceived as just the opposite and blamed, what should we do?

    Just smile through it. Don’t worry about what others blame. You should not keep quiet also, you should educate and ignore. ...
  5. Gurudev, when somebody blames me, they take away my negative energy. If this is true, why is it that I feel low or I feel very bad at the moment?

    You know, somebody is talking negative about you, they are dumping garbage. You should not hold your gunny bag and catch it. When somebody is dumping garbage, you simply move away from there. Don't take it in.
    If they say something negative about you ...
  6. I do a lot for my family members and yet they are all always saying I am wrong. What should I do? How to deal with it?

    No, don’t say that they always say you are wrong. If they always say that you are wrong then it would not bother you or even touch you. You would take it as their nature. Sometimes they would have said that you did right as well. Isn’t that so?
    If yo ...
  7. Gurudev, what to do when someone blames your character or integrity?

    There is a very beautiful couplet in Kannada that says, ‘What do you say to a person who is scared of noise but has built his house in the market?’
    ‘What do say to a person who has built a home on the seashore and hates waves?’
    ‘What do you say t ...
  8. Please talk about Reciprocity.

    Reciprocity is very natural.
    At a higher state of mind, reciprocity is instantaneous. Only when someone is not sensitive there is no reciprocity.
    Often people reciprocate the bad things. If you blame somebody, they are ready to blame you immediat ...
  9. Gurudev, you ask us to be dispassionate. How can I be dispassionate about you? I love you and the attachment keeps growing every day.

    If this attachment helps you to move away from other unwanted things, then it is okay. If it gives you a focus, it is fine. But if it is causing jealousy, anger, greed and all those negative emotions, you better work on yourself.
    Go deep into yourself ...
  10. Gurudev, if we lose our footwear or if someone takes it away, is it true that they take away our bad karma?

    If it was an expensive shoe, then yes, it is better to think that way . At least you will get peaceful sleep at night. But if it was a cheap slipper… (Sri Sri nods his head).

    See the main idea was to tell the people to be in the present moment. < ...

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