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Question & Answers with Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

Question & Answers with Sri Sri Ravi Shankar
 

Q: How can the mind and the heart think the same way?

Sri Sri: The heart doesn’t think my dear, it only feels! The mind only thinks, it doesn’t feel. Both are essential. Keep them in their place. Do your business with your mind, and live your life with your heart.

Q: How to accept a person or a spouse as they are?

Sri Sri: I have no experience in this! I think you can turn around and find many who can give a lot of advice. Ask them and see which one works for you! This is where Vedanta comes into the practical side of life. You will see the whole past is gone, it is like a dream, finished. At least now, be enthusiastic! This moment!
It is up to you to create enthusiasm every moment in your life. How can you do it? You can’t do it if you are holding onto the past. You must simply kick the past. Let go of it.
Okay, yesterday they made a mistake, never mind. Some pleasant things happen, some unpleasant things happen, some good things happen, some bad things happen. Throw them all! Right now, your job is to create positive energy and enthusiasm in the atmosphere, and see that there is more love in the family. Can we all do this? This is living in wisdom!
Once in six months or a year, if you want to complain, sit and complain for an hour and then forget about it. But don’t do it every day.
I don’t ask you to be goody-goody things all the time. Life is a combination of everything, sometimes fights, anger, and joy. Life should have multi-colors; you should have all colors in life, no need to have one uniform.
However, you should be able to snap out of all this little flickering of the mind, and this knowledge will help you. Everyday wake up and say, ‘Shivoham, I am the consciousness, pure and beautiful.’ So, today for Buddha Poornima, take this beautiful message with you, ‘Everything is nothing.’
‘Appa Deepo Bhava’, which means, be a light unto yourself. You are light. So go back home happily and just before going to sleep, remember all these knowledge points. It is good to bring it to your conscious memory a couple of times.
Next two days also, if you recollect this knowledge, it will stay longer with you. There are two things. One is shravana, which means listening. The other is manana, which means bringing the knowledge to your mind, your conscious attention a few times. Both are important and will help a lot.
What you need to remember is that, everything is nothing, it is all a dream. The past is a dream, future is a dream, now, present is a dream; the world is of dream nature. And you are light onto yourself. I have no experience in this! I think you can turn around and find many who can give a lot of advice. Ask them and see which one works for you! This is where Vedanta comes into the practical side of life. You will see the whole past is gone, it is like a dream, finished. At least now, be enthusiastic! This moment!
It is up to you to create enthusiasm every moment in your life. How can you do it? You can’t do it if you are holding onto the past. You must simply kick the past. Let go of it.
Okay, yesterday they made a mistake, never mind. Some pleasant things happen, some unpleasant things happen, some good things happen, some bad things happen. Throw them all! Right now, your job is to create positive energy and enthusiasm in the atmosphere, and see that there is more love in the family. Can we all do this? This is living in wisdom!
Once in six months or a year, if you want to complain, sit and complain for an hour and then forget about it. But don’t do it every day.
I don’t ask you to be goody-goody things all the time. Life is a combination of everything, sometimes fights, anger, and joy. Life should have multi-colors; you should have all colors in life, no need to have one uniform.
However, you should be able to snap out of all this little flickering of the mind, and this knowledge will help you. Everyday wake up and say, ‘Shivoham, I am the consciousness, pure and beautiful.’ So, today for Buddha Poornima, take this beautiful message with you, ‘Everything is nothing.’
‘Appa Deepo Bhava’, which means, be a light unto yourself. You are light. So go back home happily and just before going to sleep, remember all these knowledge points. It is good to bring it to your conscious memory a couple of times.
Next two days also, if you recollect this knowledge, it will stay longer with you.
There are two things. One is shravana, which means listening. The other is manana, which means bringing the knowledge to your mind, your conscious attention a few times. Both are important and will help a lot.
What you need to remember is that, everything is nothing, it is all a dream. The past is a dream, future is a dream, now, present is a dream; the world is of dream nature. And you are light onto yourself.

Q: Gurudev, which is your favorite song?

Sri Sri: Vande Mataram

Q: How does one control the mind?

Sri Sri: Why do you want to control the mind?
The mind always goes where it finds more happiness and more joy. Let it go!
You will find that real joy is not outside, it is inside. The mind will go everywhere outside, and when it doesn’t find joy, it will finally go in, spontaneously.
Where there is love, you don’t need to try to control the mind. Where there is interest, you don’t need to control the mind. Do you have to make an effort to love your child? No! Love for children is so spontaneous, so natural.
In the same way, when everything appears empty, the mind will go to that higher knowledge, wisdom, and energy. It is quite natural.

Q: Gurudev, yesterday you said that anyone who has surrendered to God cannot do anything wrong. Even Ravana (the King of Lanka in the Ramayana) was a great devotee of Lord Shiva. Then how did he commit such a misdeed (referring to his abducting Lord Rama’s wife Sita)?

Sri Sri: There seems to be a different Ramayana that is followed in Sri Lanka. According to that, it was Lord Rama who made a big mistake (of leaving his wife unattended in the forest during their exile).
See, this is a matter of perception. In Sri Lanka they narrate a totally different story as to why Ravana, though being a king, abducted Sita.
Ravana’s sister (Surpankha) was attracted to Lord Rama and fell in love with Him. When she approached Him, He insulted her by refusing her proposal. And not just that, Lakshmana (Lord Rama’s younger brother) also cut her nose to discourage her from making further advances. Now, would a king forgive someone who has cut his sister’s nose? No king, or human being for that matter would forgive another person who harasses and harms their own sister. Would any person tolerate this? No, because tolerating such a thing would be a crime in itself. So, Ravana abducted Sita in order to avenge his sister’s honour.
But it is also said that Ravana kept Sita very respectfully. Also, if Ravana was such an evil person, then he would not have agreed to be the priest for the pooja that Lord Rama did in Rameshwaram. Do you all know this story? Lord Rama wanted to do be victorious in battle against Ravana, and for that He wanted to establish a Shivalinga and worship it. Now to do this, a priest was needed, but in those days there were no priests found in Rameshwaram. So Lord Rama was in dire need of a good priest to perform the rituals.
Ravana was a staunch devotee of Lord Shiva and was also a Brahmin by birth. So Ravana’s brother Vibhishana (who was on Lord Rama’s side), told Lord Rama that Ravana was very well-versed in the rituals. So Lord Rama sent an invitation to Ravana to come and preside as the priest for the pooja at Rameshwaram.
Ravana accepted the invitation and came. But then he told Lord Rama that the pooja would be incomplete without his wife being present. No pooja or yagna can be performed without the wife’s presence. So he told Lord Rama, ‘Since you are a married man, both you and your wife have to sit together for the pooja, otherwise you cannot perform the pooja’.
Then Lord Rama said to him, ‘It is the duty of the priest to provide an alternative for anything that is missing. Since my wife is not with me (having been kept in captivity by Ravana at that time), please tell me what the alternative for this problem is. Can we keep a doll in her place as a substitute?’
Then Ravana said, ‘I do not believe in alternative. I would want everything to be present for the worship of Lord Shiva. So I will call your wife here for the pooja. After the pooja, please send her back to Lanka’.
So Ravana brings Sita for the pooja. After the pooja, when Lord Rama and Sita bow down to touch the feet of the priest, that is, Ravana, to take blessings, then Ravana blesses Lord Rama by saying ‘Vijayi bhavaha’ (May victory be yours!). He had no choice but to do so.
When someone touches the feet of a priest, he is left with no choice but to bless that person. So Ravana had to give that blessing to Lord Rama for which He had organized the pooja. He also blessed Sita by saying ‘Sumangali bhavaha’ (May you receive all that is best and auspicious always!) Such was Ravana’s magnanimity. After blessing both of them, Ravana took Sita back to Lanka with him. This is a very exciting story. We always perceive Ravana as a villain, but even Ravana had many good qualities in him. This is why when Ravana was counting his last breaths and was at his death bed on the battlefield, Lord Rama told Lakshmana to go and touch the feet of Ravana and receive knowledge from him as he lay dying on the battlefield. Lord Rama said, ‘If I go to him (Ravana) then he will leave his body and his soul will merge into Me. So before that happens, go and learn all that you can from him’. Do you know, there is a Gita by the name Ravana? It is called Ravana Gita.
Of the five Gitas that are present, it is one of them. Just like you have the Srimad Bhagavad Gita, Ashtavakra Gita, Udhhava Gita, and Guru Gita; there is another Gita called Ravana Gita (the song of Ravana). In it, Ravana teaches many sermons to Lakshmana.
After Ravana completes his teaching, Lakshmana gives a signal to Lord Rama to come to Ravana. When Lord Rama comes to Ravana, his soul leaves his body as a bright light and merges with Lord Rama. This is a story from the Adhyatma Ramayana. I have not read it fully, I have only heard this story. But all of you should read it.
When you read it, you find that Kekayi (one of the wives of King Dashratha and a mother-like figure for Lord Rama) was actually a very noble lady. We usually think of her as a deceitful and evil woman. But it is not so at all. She was not a bad lady. She instructed Lord Rama to go into exile in the forest because He wanted to go.
So this is why it is said, ‘Sarvam Vasudevam iti’ (Everything is Vasudeva). Both Ravana and Lord Rama are Vasudeva only (meaning both are manifestations of the One Divinity).

Q: Gurudev, how can I be free of ignorance?

Sri Sri: When you become aware that you were ignorant, that itself means that your ignorance is gone. An ignorant person does not think of himself as ignorant at all. Just like how you realize you were asleep after you wake up, in the same way, an ignorant person realizes his own ignorance only after he comes out of it. There is so much nectar in this knowledge. We can go on discussing it for hours together. Tonight, I am giving you all an exercise to do.
Sarvam Vasudevam iti’, remember that everything around you is (a form of) Vasudeva. Whatever kind of devotion one has, it has come to you by Vasudeva’s grace alone.

Q: What can I do for you, just tell me, and I will do it!

Sri Sri: Be happy and spread happiness.
I want you to go deep in knowledge, and be one of those who are a giver to the world; one who radiates happiness, knowledge and wisdom. This is what I want you to do.
Among the billions of people on the planet, even if a few radiate wisdom, love and happiness, you can heal this planet. It is a much needed healing.
You are very precious to this planet, at this time. Get into the seva team, and do some service.

Q: Gurudev, you mentioned that Lord Krishna says in the Gita, ‘I am not governed by the three gunas and neither do the three gunas reside in Me’. To understand this, you gave us the example of the clothes a person wears. But then looking at the clothes I am wearing, does it not appear that these clothes are also me?

Sri Sri: If you are present in the clothes that you wear, then you are also present in the cupboard, and also present in the washing machine! (Laughter)
Clothes get washed but you do not. So how can you say that you are within the clothes? Just think and reflect on this.
When you change your clothes and keep them aside, are you still in them? Is it you who goes into the washing machine along with the clothes?
This cannot be understood by logic. It is a very subtle thing and has to be experienced.
You are wearing the clothes, and the clothes belong to you, yet you are not within (restricted or governed by) your clothes. It is very clear.
So Lord Krishna has said, ‘I am present in all the gunas and they belong to Me, yet they do not reside in Me’.
It is nearly impossible to comprehend this through the intellect, but you can realize this by experience. See, every example has a certain limitation to it. You should never stretch the example and interpret it beyond its limits. Then it loses its significance and also clouds the intellect. Every example has a limited power to express what needs to be conveyed. We should understand it within those limits only.
An example is just a pointer towards that which is unmanifest, unknown and beyond expression. It gives a direction to your intellect for understanding. So you should limit your understanding to that. Once you grasp what is meant, just relax. Knowledge dawns within you only in deep relaxation. You cannot grasp the subtle by making efforts.

Q: Gurudev, which is your favorite flower?

Sri Sri: Every flower that blossoms!

Q: Gurudev, in the Ashtada Prakruti (referring to the eight materialistic forms of the Lord’s divine energies – Earth, Water, Fire, Air, Space, Mind, Intellect, Ego), the ego has been counted among one of them, but not the Chitta (memory). Why is this so?

Sri Sri: You can count it in then!
Different rishis have elaborated different principles and ways of understanding the various levels of existence. You can see the mind, intellect and the ego as the three extensions of memory. These are simply four different functions or behaviours of one Consciousness. Do not misunderstand these as limited to some event. They are the four different expressions of one Consciousness.
Some schools of thought count only three of these and not all four. They consider memory to be an integral part of the mind or the intellect and hence do not count it separately.

 

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