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  1. Gurudev, how to love unconditionally in this world full of conditions?

    Do not try to love. You cannot force yourself to love, that is simply impossible. Just let go and be natural. Know that there are limitations in this world. People have their own limitations, their own prejudices. We have to live in this world with all ...
  2. Gurudev, getting love is painful and not getting it is even more painful, and maintaining love is also painful. So which pain should I choose?

    Choice is yours blessing is mine. If you want to choose pain, you are most welcome, but I will tell you, choose the bigger pain as the small ones are of no use. Your love for the whole humanity, that’s what you should be concerned about. Love for the pl ...
  3. Gurudev, what sustains love? Why do I sometimes feel love and sometimes feel no love at all?

    Yes, love is also a gift, so when it comes, feel grateful and when it is not there, feel the longing for it, that is when prayer will arise out of you; poems will arise out of it. Poems come not only when there is love, but when longing is there, poems ...
  4. I have a constant feeling that I am not doing enough for you. I also feel some envy when you praise someone else. How do I deal with this feeling?

    This is the nature of love, you always feel that you want to do more and more. A mother always feels that she wants to do more for the daughter. She feels like she has not done enough for her daughter. It is the nature of love to want to do more.Whe ...
  5. How to deal with loneliness. It is difficult to live without love in my life. How to bring love? How to bring a loving companion?

    Find love within you, that is what meditation is. If you are comfortable being with yourself, then anyone will be comfortable being with you. So here you are, in the right place to develop those vibrations within you. And you will see that ...
  6. Dear Gurudev, what is the key to keep a good friendship?

    Not demanding anything from the friends, and telling them I’m here to support you.Just believe in one thing: what you need you will get. The giver is somebody else, so don’t demand love. When you demand love you are destroying love ...
  7. Dear Gurudev, I love you more than I have ever loved or imagined I could love. I divorced several years ago and recently realized that the love and affection that I feel for you, I would like to have that with my next partner. I fear that I will never find this.

    Well, we learn from past mistakes and we move on. Don’t ever put a label on yourself that I would never be able to do this, I would never be able to love. Don’t put such concepts in your mind. Take all that you get in your life as a gi ...
  8. Gurudev, I tend to hurt people whom I love and push them away. Why do I do so? I am scared of love now.

    Listen, these patterns will change, don’t be scared. If you love somebody, serve them. Don’t latch on to them, don’t police them. Be centered.You go and tell someone, 'I love you, I love you, I love you'. They say, 'Yes ...
  9. How to open my heart for more love?

    Don’t try to open your heart. You cannot do an open heart surgery on yourself. Leave it to me! ...
  10. Gurudev, how much do you love me? How do I know?

    Leave it! Love cannot be measured because it is infinite. There is no boundaries to it. But knowing has a boundary. Ponder on it. ...
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