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  1. Gurudev, I am getting married soon but I have this one botheration. For the past 6 months I have had many fights with my fiancé and I am not sure if I should continue this relationship.

    Now, you stop demanding love from the person. If you demand love or ask proof of their love, you are destroying it. How can someone prove their love to you? You should not burden the person.Suppose, someone asks you every day, ‘Are you hones ...
  2. I have failed in two love relations. What do I do? How many times will my heart break? I am shattered. Why is the one whom I love married to someone else?

    Do not worry. There were only 2 failed relationships. Even to pass the IAS (Indian Administrative Services) exam you get 3 chances. Never mind. You are getting experience from this - to love and let go. ...
  3. What is love? Why is it that some people have it and some people don’t?

    If you think some people don’t have love, then you are not seeing properly. They do have love. There is not an inch of space on this planet that is devoid of love; either it is misplaced or it is shrouded in ignorance. That’s it. ...
  4. Gurudev, if love is our very nature, then why do we make one person as the object of our love? Why do we think that we love that one person the most?

    From birth we have known love to be directed from a person. Love gets personalized from birth. A child opens the eyes and looks at the mother and starts feeling that love. Association kindles the feeling of love inside of you. But when it matures you ...
  5. Dear Gurudev, what is success in love?

    Love is not a business to have success or failure, love is not a career to have success or failure, love is not even an act which you can call as success or failure, love is your nature my dear!Whether you express it or not, it is there. Ju ...
  6. Gurudev, how to love unconditionally in this world full of conditions?

    Do not try to love. You cannot force yourself to love, that is simply impossible. Just let go and be natural. Know that there are limitations in this world. People have their own limitations, their own prejudices. We have to live in this world with all ...
  7. Gurudev, getting love is painful and not getting it is even more painful, and maintaining love is also painful. So which pain should I choose?

    Choice is yours blessing is mine. If you want to choose pain, you are most welcome, but I will tell you, choose the bigger pain as the small ones are of no use. Your love for the whole humanity, that’s what you should be concerned about. Love for the pl ...
  8. Gurudev, what sustains love? Why do I sometimes feel love and sometimes feel no love at all?

    Yes, love is also a gift, so when it comes, feel grateful and when it is not there, feel the longing for it, that is when prayer will arise out of you; poems will arise out of it. Poems come not only when there is love, but when longing is there, poems ...
  9. I have a constant feeling that I am not doing enough for you. I also feel some envy when you praise someone else. How do I deal with this feeling?

    This is the nature of love, you always feel that you want to do more and more. A mother always feels that she wants to do more for the daughter. She feels like she has not done enough for her daughter. It is the nature of love to want to do more.Whe ...
  10. How to deal with loneliness. It is difficult to live without love in my life. How to bring love? How to bring a loving companion?

    Find love within you, that is what meditation is. If you are comfortable being with yourself, then anyone will be comfortable being with you. So here you are, in the right place to develop those vibrations within you. And you will see that ...