17 April 2015 - QA 13

Who am I? Why do I need to care for my husband, my children and my family? What if my children do not take care of me when I grow old?

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar:

Listen, if your own parents though this way about you, can you imagine where you would have been today?
See, it is good that you ask this question, “Who am I?” You should keep this question with yourself. This question helps you move ahead on the spiritual path. But do not forget that you have a responsibility towards your husband and your kids. You have to fulfill that, and you should do it with complete honesty and sincerity.
Do not go on the pleasure trip and think, “I will do only that which gives me comfort and pleasure”, that is no good. People who follow pleasure alone get ruined, but people who follow commitment in life, those who do service towards others, will surely shine out.
Remember that you have a responsibility at home. Keep your family happy and united. Meditate every day to find your inner happiness. Do not expect something from your kids.

I do not think that you have simply asked this question. It seems like some fear has come into your mind, because of hearing and seeing the TV serials today. Or maybe because of something else. I tell you, you do your duty towards your children, and remember that God is there to take care of you. You have not produced children so that they take care of you in the future. If that was the intention, then you are totally mistaken. I do not think this is the idea in any mother’s mind.