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  1. Please give me some tips to improve my relationship with my mother-in-law.

    Listen, you have a different scale for your mother and a different scale for your mother-in-law. Now why do you do that? When your mother used to scold you, it never really touched you. You are thick skinned when your mother shouts at you or scolds you ...
  2. Gurudev, how can I take my marital relationship to the next level, rather than it just being an ordinary relationship of a husband and wife?

    Both should move ahead together and support each other. Sometimes, it may happen that one partner may lose interest in a marital relationship, while the other may still be interested. Then it may seem like things are not working out. This could happen ...
  3. Gurudev, how to ensure that a person does not take you for granted in a relationship?

    Don't worry about it, it is quite natural. People take you for granted because they think you belong to them already, and so they only attend to people who are guests. You are a part of the family, why should anybody tell you, 'Have you had coffe ...
  4. What is the truth of relationships; after being bitten once I am now twice shy. How do I overcome this fear?

    You are asking this question that means you have already overcome the fear. If you had not, you wouldn't even ask this question. You would just say, ‘Relationships, I am not going to go into it’, and you would have run away. Since you don't have that m ...
  5. Are all relationships based on previous karma?

    Yes. Do you know, sometimes a soul who wants to come into the world, it picks up one man and one woman and then creates such an attraction between them. So these two people come closer, and the moment they have the first child, suddenly all the love d ...
  6. How to deal with people with a very big ego, especially when their behavior is affecting life and others in a bad way?

    Let them have a big ego, why are you bothered? You nurse an even bigger ego than them, there ends the story. In fact you will find you have a bigger ego, I tell you. Let others have an ego, so what? Why do you sign on a contract of destroyin ...
  7. Gurudev, after doing the Kriya, many times I find myself smiling unconsciously. When I am alone also I keep smiling. I myself don’t know that I am smiling. Everybody thinks that there is something wrong with me. What do I tell them?

    You should take a serious look at yourself if everybody thinks that there is something wrong with you. You must take a serious look. If everybody is saying that then it is not okay. You must consider their opinions. Here, I won’t say, don’t be ...
  8. I am in a relationship with a person who is too calculative about his actions. He is scared of getting attached as he believes that it might affect his spiritual growth. Is this right?

    Don't ask someone to prove their love for you. That is when all these things come. If we show too much love to somebody they do not know how to handle it or how to respond to it, isn't it? People get confused. There are many people who do not know ...
  9. If somebody has really done something wrong towards us, what should we do?

    When someone does something bad to you, think, why would they do it? One reason could be that they are not healthy. Do you see a fool or a mentally ill person as a culprit? No! If a mentally ill person says something bad to you, do you take thei ...
  10. Gurudev, you just said that we should not consider anyone as bad. If others treat us badly, how do we react to that?

    If others have a negative opinion about you, it is their problem, not yours. From your side, do not consider anyone as bad. By doing this, your mind will be clear and pleasant and your intellect will be sharp. Otherwise, the people whom you consider a ...
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