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  1. I have a constant feeling that I am not doing enough for you. I also feel some envy when you praise someone else. How do I deal with this feeling?

    This is the nature of love, you always feel that you want to do more and more. A mother always feels that she wants to do more for the daughter. She feels like she has not done enough for her daughter. It is the nature of love to want to do more.
    Whe ...

  2. How to deal with loneliness. It is difficult to live without love in my life. How to bring love? How to bring a loving companion?

    Find love within you, that is what meditation is. If you are comfortable being with yourself, then anyone will be comfortable being with you. So here you are, in the right place to develop those vibrations within you. And you will see that ...

  3. Dear Gurudev, what is the key to keep a good friendship?

    Not demanding anything from the friends, and telling them I’m here to support you.
    Just believe in one thing: what you need you will get. The giver is somebody else, so don’t demand love. When you demand love you are destroying love ...

  4. Dear Gurudev, I love you more than I have ever loved or imagined I could love. I divorced several years ago and recently realized that the love and affection that I feel for you, I would like to have that with my next partner. I fear that I will never find this.

    Well, we learn from past mistakes and we move on. Don’t ever put a label on yourself that I would never be able to do this, I would never be able to love. Don’t put such concepts in your mind. Take all that you get in your life as a gi ...

  5. Gurudev, I love my soul mate so much, that I fear that it does not leave much room for me to love the Divine.

    I have no experience of a soul mate.
    Why not? I don’t think there is any hindrance. If you have a soul mate, and you found some new love, you can as well see that as a gift to you.
    Your friends are a gift, your partner is a gift to you ...

  6. Gurudev, what are the signs of true love? What is its form and how can we recognize it?

    True love is like what was between Lord Rama and Bharat. That which existed between Radha and Lord Krishna, and between Lord Krishna and Arjuna. It is pure, like the love between a mother and her child, between a husband and a wife.
    The love here exis ...
  7. Gurudev, you said that love cannot be limited. Is marriage the end of love?

    (Laughter) Well, I don’t know that. I have never been married. If you are asking in the sense that marriage is the end of love, then that is not how it should be. But if marriage begins with love for each other, it is okay. Even if it blossoms duri ...
  8. Gurudev, How to keep on loving without expecting. How is it possible? In love expectations arise and if not fulfilled, it hurts.

    Yes, you will have to go through these gymnastics. If you have wisdom, you don’t have to go through the pain to learn. When there is lack of wisdom, you go through pain, but you will come out of it in sometime, don’t worry. This is why it is ...

  9. Gurudev, few days back you were discussing about Maya (Illusion) and I thought about my mother-in-law. God has given her everything. She has a nice house, servants, car and a daughter-in- law like me. But despite of all this her face is always serious grim. And surprisingly her name is also Maya. Now I know what is Maya. Please let me know how to get liberated from Maya. (Laughter)

    I will first ask ‘Maya’ (referring here to the mother-in-law) and then let you know! (Laughter) Maybe she also wants freedom from someone. Liberation is not one sided. See, even your mother has scolded you at many times, is it not so? There isn’t a ...
  10. Gurudev, if someone bothers us constantly and we have to bear with that, what should we do in such a situation? How can we increase our patience?

    Is this your personal problem or are you asking me an indirect question? And you want me to give a direct answer for an indirect question? (Laughter). How is it possible?

    You have to see the situation and respond accordingly. If someone is cons ...

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