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  1. Gurudev, Guruji I want to know how to have harmonious relation with juniors and at the same time take work from them?

    Create a sense of belongingness with your juniors. You know that they respect you and you need to be cordial with them. Respect needs some distance, this distance is good but that should be of an arm’s length and not longer than that. A little dis ...

  2. Gurudev, when there is love, why suffering is also there in a relationship?

    Love with wisdom is bliss. Love without knowledge or wisdom is pain. Why is there pain in love? That is what you are wondering or questioning about! It is not love which is giving you pain. If it is just purely love, that means you just care for someone, y ...
  3. Gurudev, What should I do when my partner refuses to admit his mistakes and repeats them over and over again, in spite of knowing that his actions are not bringing him any good results and are causing frequent fights in the house?

    You know, sometimes we tell others that they are doing a mistake because their mistake is hurting us. When we do this they never get corrected and they never listen to your advice. But if you are telling them that what they are doing is hurting them more t ...
  4. Gurudev, My husband speaks foul words when he gets angry and he gets angry easily at small things. Later on he forgets what he said and I keep on crying. Secondly, he blames me that it is because of me that he gets angry. Please suggest what to do in this situation?

    See, he says and forgets, isn’t it? He says all nasty things and forgets about it, so you also listen and forget. Instead of telling him, ‘Don’t say it, don’t say it’, and holding on to it in your heart, as and when he gets angry keep ear plugs on you and ...
  5. Gurudev, I am in a situation in which I am neither able to forgive nor forget. Please guide me what to do.

    Then just think about your death, that you are going to die.
    Even if you hold on (to the situation), still you will be finished; you will go away from this world. Now, do you want to carry that impression? Come on, wake up!
    Life is so sho ...
  6. Gurudev, What is the truth of relationships; after being bitten once I am now twice shy. How do I overcome this fear?

    You are asking this question that means you have already overcome the fear. If you had not, you wouldn't even ask this question. You would just say, ‘Relationships, I am not going to go into it’, and you would have run away.
    Since you don't have that m ...
  7. Gurudev, how to ensure that a person does not take you for granted in a relationship?

    Don't worry about it, it is quite natural.
    People take you for granted because they think you belong to them already, and so they only attend to people who are guests.
    You are a part of the family, why should anybody tell you, 'Have you had coffe ...
  8. Gurudev, how can I take my marital relationship to the next level, rather than it just being an ordinary relationship of a husband and wife?

    Both should move ahead together and support each other.
    Sometimes, it may happen that one partner may lose interest in a marital relationship, while the other may still be interested. Then it may seem like things are not working out. This could happen ...
  9. Gurudev, Please give me some tips to improve my relationship with my mother-in-law.

    Listen, you have a different scale for your mother and a different scale for your mother-in-law. Now why do you do that?
    When your mother used to scold you, it never really touched you. You are thick skinned when your mother shouts at you or scolds you ...
  10. Gurudev, I have a boss who is manipulative, unethical, and very difficult to work with. I am a dedicated employee but I am not able to work with my boss, what should I do?

    Again I tell you, it is all about vibes.
    Have you noticed, for no reason, you feel aversion towards some people, and for no reason you feel pulled towards some people. It is our vibes that speak, it is our vibes that changes the minds of people. It is ...
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