Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: One should feel that everyone belongs to him; and one should have tolerance. In one day I have to listen to 2000 to 3000 questions. Do I listen to them or not? No matter how many questions, I listen to them all. Do I listen to them with joy or not?

So, stability of the mind; sharpness of the intellect; softness of the heart. These three are important in life.

Heart should be soft,
intellect should be sharp &
mind should be pleasant.
Never lose these three.

Even if it seems to be lost, think that it is not gone away but is there and just hidden.