Q: My dear Gurudev, sometimes the expectations of people around me and my own expectations from myself don't let me be natural. What to do to become natural?
Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: Only sometimes, not all the time, isn’t it?
If it is all the time then I will give you a solution. Sometimes it is okay.
As you grow more in wisdom, as you see the dream nature of the world – that everything is like a dream, everything is passing, everything is changing, then events will bother you lesser and lesser.
The only way to be untouched by events is to see the whole phenomenon as a dream which is passing.