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  1. Dear Gurudev, how can I keep my ego and anger from hurting others around me?

    Listen, if your are sensitive and your intention is not to hurt anybody, that is good enough. But sometimes in spite of your being so cautious, some people get hurt. There is nothing that you can do about it. Some people feel that anything ...

  2. Dear Gurudev, is it okay to love and be with a married man?

    Suppose you were married and your husband was with someone, would you like it? Put yourself in the place of the other woman who is already married. Then you decide for yourself. I won’t say anything about it.

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  3. Dearest Gurudev, please can you talk about domestic violence and give some knowledge on this. What is the role of acceptance and responsibility when a spouse feels that their actions are in proportion to their hurt?

    Listen, when two people are living together, there will definitely be arguments. However compatible, no two people can think the same things all the time. There will be difference of opinions. If both have sweet talks all the time, both will land up hav ...

  4. Dear Gurudev, the most important person in my life after you, is not talking to me. What should I do? Also, he was not very happy with my coming here. What should I do when he behaves badly when I have done nothing wrong?

    Have patience! You be nice to him and he will turn around.
    You know, sometimes people are scared because they think your love for them has reduced when you do other things. So give them the confidence that you love them most. It is all about just want ...
  5. In a practical and immediate way, what can we do to combat terrorism? Can people say special mantras or prayers to help erase the horrible violence?

    We need to bring unity in diversity. Terrorism is just lack a of education in spirituality. the root cause is that and it has to be nipped at the bud. Schools and colleges should have a broad spectrum of knowledge. Every child should know a little bit a ...

  6. Gurudev, if the same person keeps annoying me again and again, how do I deal with him without getting angry?

    Did you ask him if he is also annoyed by you? Go and ask him how annoyed he feels because of you.

    See, these things are always two sided. And if someone is annoying, what can you do? Some people are like that! No matter how many times you try to ...

  7. Gurudev, how to deal with a loved one being too possessive?

    Only through wisdom.
    You need to make people see life from a bigger perspective. When they see life with a wide angle lens, then their whole idea, or opinion will change. Otherwise the world seems so small, and we go around in little circles of fiftee ...
  8. Dear Gurudev, my mother and father don’t have peace. How can I help them be friendly.

    This is a very big task my dear.
    You do one thing, ask them to do The Happiness Program. Individually convince them and I tell you, don’t take it too seriously.
    Sometimes they are happy fighting. If there is noth ...

  9. Gurudev, what to choose between these two things: life in this beautiful world with a Guru like you, or liberation and ultimate union with the Divine?

    You can have both; this does not have to be a choice. You can lead a happy life in this beautiful world, and you can get liberation also.
    Main thing is, don’t be a football of other people’s opinions.
    Many times, you do t ...

  10. How to love someone who I do not understand?

    As a baby is born, it looks into its mother’s eyes, and starts loving the mother. The baby does not know anything about the mother. It does not know the name of the mother, or the school she went to, what subjects she studied, or how old she is. T ...

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