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  1. How to treat a cheating spouse. Do I ignore and wait till they do this again or leave them?

    Well, first of all, don’t label them as a cheating spouse, know they are your spouse. If they have cheated in the past, they have done it out of some temptation, some ignorance, or some situation you don’t know what. But, with your love and compassion, wi ...
  2. Is it possible to restore trust in a relationship after a partner cheats? How to get past a cheating partner?

    I can tell you one thing, suppose you were in your partner’s place and you made a mistake unknowingly, or due to some compulsion, and your partner does not forgive you and holds it against you, how would you feel? Get into your partner's shoes and see. If ...
  3. My partner cheated on me. When I confronted him, he says, ‘You do not possess me'. What to do in such a situation?

    When someone is cheating on you and their mind is going towards someone else, what do you do? Just pray, have patience and understand their mind. Give them three warnings, and even then if they don’t listen, then take some drastic steps. ...
  4. How can I know if it is the right time to separate from someone? I have been struggling with one relationship for almost five years now. It has become one of the biggest struggles of my life.

    I would say, ask yourself, have you given your 100% to the relationship. If you feel that you haven’t, then give it another try. And not just for one or two months, give it enough time, and give enough space for the other person to grow to your level, or f ...
  5. You have told us how to be in a relationship. Please tell us, how to come out of the relationship?

    You have already come out of it! When you want to come out of it, it is already done, isn't it? The main thing is to relate yourself to the divinity. If you have a relationship with the divine, you have a relationship with everyone. Then the question of es ...
  6. Please talk on the subject of divorce. When is it a good thing? Or is it always to be avoided?

    You should ask yourself, “Have you put your 100% to make the marriage work? Have you done all that you could to please your spouse and make them happy, and still it has not worked?” Marriage means sacrifice. Sacrificing your desires for the good of the ...
  7. How to let go of people who are no more in our life?

    Expand your vision about yourself, about life and about this universe. This universe has been there for at least 19 billion years, and it is part of billions of galaxies. One amongst the billion galaxies is our Milky Way. So the Milky Way is actually very ...
  8. There is so much competition in society that kids have no time to relax. There is a fear that they will not fit into society. How do we handle this situation?

    You shouldn’t push them too much. You should teach them to relax. Music, meditation and some games will help. Take some time out to play games with your children, this is very important. Tell your children 'Compete with yourself. How you did last year, see ...
  9. How do I deal with the rebelliousness of my kids?

    Negative suggestions call for rebelliousness in the mind. If you say, “Don't do it”, then the mind says, “Why? Let me do it!” The mind calls for rebelliousness. But if you say, “You can do it, only you won't get the results”, then you don't leave a chance ...
  10. How to cope with children’s expectations when they compare themselves with others and demand the things that others have?

    You have to tell children that you can only give them this much and they shouldn’t compare themselves with others. It is important that you don’t give them any false hope. At the same time, we can give them a dream. If you pass or do this, maybe you will ...