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I have failed in two love relations. What do I do? How many times will my heart break? I am shattered. Why is the one whom I love married to someone else?
Do not worry. There were only 2 failed relationships. Even to pass the IAS (Indian Administrative Services) exam you get 3 chances. Never mind. You are getting experience from this - to love and let go. ... -
Dear Gurudev, what is success in love?
Love is not a business to have success or failure, love is not a career to have success or failure, love is not even an act which you can call as success or failure, love is your nature my dear!Whether you express it or not, it is there. Ju ... -
How to be in a relationship without depending on the other, and without feeling possessive.
Know that love is your nature. By nature you are loving, and relax. Give the person whom you love their freedom; their space.When you love somebody, you almost want to strangle them. You want to police them from morning till night. It may sound very ... -
I love my soul mate so much, that I fear that it does not leave much room for me to love the Divine.
I have no experience of a soul mate.Why not? I don’t think there is any hindrance. If you have a soul mate, and you found some new love, you can as well see that as a gift to you.Your friends are a gift, your partner is a gift to you ... -
Gurudev, I am not able to behave intelligently or cleverly before the one whom I love and respect a lot. I do too many silly things because of this. What should I do?
Never mind, it is alright. There is some beauty even in behaving foolishly. That silly behavior also amuses people. Sometimes an intelligent person cannot give the joy and amusement that a foolish person gives because of his ways. ... -
Gurudev, few days back you were discussing about Maya (Illusion) and I thought about my mother-in-law. God has given her everything. She has a nice house, servants, car and a daughter-in- law like me. But despite of all this her face is always serious grim. And surprisingly her name is also Maya. Now I know what is Maya. Please let me know how to get liberated from Maya. (Laughter)
I will first ask ‘Maya’ (referring here to the mother-in-law) and then let you know! (Laughter) Maybe she also wants freedom from someone. Liberation is not one sided. See, even your mother has scolded you at many times, is it not so? There isn’t a ... -
Gurudev, when there is love between two people, they decide to get married. Then why does the love cease to exist after marriage?
See, I cannot say this in this matter. I have no experience in this! (Laughter). Neither do I have any experience of marriage, nor have I ever felt that love has ceased to exist! See, when we love a person with an intention to gain something from him ... -
Please give me some tips to improve my relationship with my mother-in-law.
Listen, you have a different scale for your mother and a different scale for your mother-in-law. Now why do you do that? When your mother used to scold you, it never really touched you. You are thick skinned when your mother shouts at you or scolds you ... -
Can you please explain, how should I deal with this situation? I love a person unconditionally but that person takes me for granted. How do I deal with that pain?
Oh, they take you for granted? They don’t love you back? They don’t express their love to you, is that the problem? Well, do not question their love. If you find that they are not being loving, instead of accusing them saying, ‘You do not love me’, as ... -
Dear Gurudev, love, respect and attachment, how are these three connected. How we can we keep these in balance in relationships?
I think you have too much free time. You should get busy. Do not sit and worry. Love, respect, all these feelings and emotions remain in you. When your heart and mind are clear, then the right emotions will come at the right time. Love, respect – ...