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  1. Gurudev, I am in love with someone. How can I make out whether it is love or infatuation?

    You fall in love and you want me to tell you whether it is true love or not! You would need to decipher this yourself. Only the person who is eating would know the taste of the food. How can someone else advise on that? ...
  2. Love or reason?

    Both are part of life. You should not choose between them. It is like asking someone ‘Should I watch or listen to television?’ You have to do both.When you do business, do it with reason. When you relate to people don’t do it as ...
  3. Gurudev, I feel I have never done enough for my parents and this bothers me. How do I deal with this feeling?

    When there is deep love, you always tend to feel that you have not done enough. If you ask any mother, “Have you done a lot for your child, or all that you had to?” She will say, “Oh, I don’t think so. I feel I have not done much ...
  4. As a human being, is it possible to love without desire, lust, attachment, jealousy, or the fear of loss? Is it possible to love without any of these things?

    Yes, when there is love and wisdom, none of these negative tendencies will come close to you. However, if there is love without wisdom, all these things that you mentioned, will all attack you at once. ...
  5. Do you love me?

    I am love, and so are you! love is not an act. In that sense, you are not separate from me, neither are you different from me. What is this silly question: do you love me? Neither I have any choice nor you have any choice. Drop all these silly doubts th ...
  6. What is love?

    Well, if you have not known it, there is no way you can know it! There is not a single being on this planet which or who does not know what love is. On one hand this is true, on the other hand, nobody has known love.Love is not something that you ...
  7. Gurudev, how do we keep love in our heart and act when challenged?

    Love is in your heart only, isn’t it? If your actions are being challenged, then look into them -- are they alright, did you do something wrong, can you do any better, or is it just the other person’s perception? When people ...
  8. Gurudev, how do we keep love in our heart and actions when challenged?

    Love is in your heart only, isn’t it? If your actions are being challenged, then look into them -- are they alright, did you do something wrong, can you do any better, or is it just the other person’s perception?   ...
  9. Gurudev, how do we keep love in our heart and actions when challenged?

    Love is in your heart only, isn’t it? If your actions are being challenged, then look into them -- are they alright, did you do something wrong, can you do any better, or is it just the other person’s perception?   ...
  10. How to move from attraction to true love?

    In the beginning, you don't find it as just an attraction, you feel it is true love. But time tells you that it was just an attraction, it was not true love. Time makes you realize. At that time, any number of advice anyone gives you, it doesn't really ...