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  1. How do I manage the expectations of people around me, and how to be happy without expecting much from my loved ones?

    See, you do your 100% and then that’s it! If they expect more from you, say, "I am so sorry, I can’t do this".If you are not a doctor and somebody expects you to treat them, what would you do? Will you give them an injection ...
  2. I have failed in two love relations. What do I do? How many times will my heart break? I am shattered. Why is the one whom I love married to someone else?

    Do not worry. There were only 2 failed relationships. Even to pass the IAS (Indian Administrative Services) exam you get 3 chances. Never mind. You are getting experience from this - to love and let go. ...
  3. Dear Gurudev, how to manage my life when one of my most beloved is totally against the very foundation of my life, or my source of happiness?

    Consider it as your tapasya (penance). Use all your skills. Tough situations bring out the skills from within you. If things are smooth, there is no use of your skill. You won’t even know whether you have skills or not. The tougher the situ ...
  4. Sometimes I feel very lonely. I really don’t know what to do to get rid of this. I need someone to support me and someone on whom I can rely on. But no one is ready for 100% commitment. What to do?

    Any companionship when it goes from a place of wanting or lack, to contributing, it is long lasting. You came into this world all alone. Even if you are born twins, you are alone. When you go from here, you are going to go alone. Do not try to run away ...
  5. Gurudev, how do you deal with a family member who is stiff and bitter?

    Deal with them with patience and compassion. They are going through some rough patches. Do not pay much attention to what they say, and do not say too much to them. Take anything they say with a smile. Give them some space to calm down and get rid of wh ...
  6. Gurudev, people say that having a relationship between the ages of 13 to 18 is wrong. But according to science, it happens naturally?

    It doesn’t happen naturally, it happens due to stimulation. When you keep busy and don’t pay attention to stimulation, it won’t happen.See, a tree has many mango fruits; you should allow them to ripen a little bit before you pluc ...
  7. Gurudev, how do I deal with the imperfections around me?

    Leave a little room for imperfections.Imperfections exist at three levels; physical, mental and emotional, i.e., body, thought and emotions. If you don’t accept the imperfections on the physical level, you become more and more imperfect on t ...
  8. Dear Gurudev, how do I satisfy my loved ones that are very demanding?

    Sometimes, it is okay to be little insensitive. When the demands are not justified or not logical, you do not have to feel obliged about those demands, but you don't have to get upset either.Suppose you are not a doctor and someone is coming a ...
  9. How does one maintain harmony in relationships?

    I am not qualified to talk about it, but having observed many couples around the world I can give you some ideas. I will give you three ideas; one suggestion for males, one suggestion for females, and one for both. First, ladies, my suggestion to ...
  10. How to stop people from bullying?

    You do not need to stop anyone from bullying you. You do not get bullied, that is all.How are they going to bully? They are going to say something, right? You act as though you are deaf! The best way for a bully is to act as though you are deaf, o ...
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