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  1. Dear Gurudev, how do I satisfy my loved ones that are very demanding?

    Sometimes, it is okay to be little insensitive. When the demands are not justified or not logical, you do not have to feel obliged about those demands, but you don't have to get upset either.Suppose you are not a doctor and someone is coming a ...
  2. How does one maintain harmony in relationships?

    I am not qualified to talk about it, but having observed many couples around the world I can give you some ideas. I will give you three ideas; one suggestion for males, one suggestion for females, and one for both. First, ladies, my suggestion to ...
  3. How to stop people from bullying?

    You do not need to stop anyone from bullying you. You do not get bullied, that is all.How are they going to bully? They are going to say something, right? You act as though you are deaf! The best way for a bully is to act as though you are deaf, o ...
  4. Gurudev, it's hard to say 'I belong to you' to a near and dear one. But it feels easy to say it to a stranger, why?

    Your near and dear ones are yours anyways. Why would you tell them, 'I belong to you’? They'll think you've gone mad. You can't wake up in the morning and tell your mother, 'Mummy, I belong to you'.Your mother will th ...
  5. Jai Guru Dev, how do you feel content when your mind is focused on finding your soul mate and you’re getting old and concerned?

    First you meet your soul, and your soul will say, ‘I am never old! I am young all the time'. Then your concerns will fly away.See, nobody will like to have you as a soul mate when you’re so worried and bogged down by issues and pro ...
  6. Gurudev, you said not to hurt the ego of a man. But is that valid even when he hurts the feelings of his wife? How do I change his egoistic nature?

    Why do you want to change their nature? You change. When you change they may also change, or they may not change! We need to learn to see life from a broader perspective. Then things make much more sense to us.Why do we try to change people? ...
  7. Dear Gurudev, how to let go of people who are no more in our life?

    Expand your vision about yourself, about life and about this universe. This universe has been there for at least 19 billion years, and it is part of a billion of galaxies. If you observe the cosmos, the solar system is like a dot.The ...
  8. Dear Gurudev, what is success in love?

    Love is not a business to have success or failure, love is not a career to have success or failure, love is not even an act which you can call as success or failure, love is your nature my dear!Whether you express it or not, it is there. Ju ...
  9. My partner cheated on me. When I confronted him, he says, ‘You do not possess me'. What to do in such a situation?

    It is a very tough situation. I have no experience, how can I give you any ideas or suggestions? But I understand your predicament. You know why they cheat on you? It is because they value your love and are afraid of losing your love. Whenever so ...
  10. How to know that the girl I like is the one I am looking for, and if I am the right person for her?

    This you have to ask her! If you feel you are not up to the mark, you can straight away start being up to the mark. Improve your qualities, otherwise she will anyways teach you! A spouse can bring the best out of you or the worst out of you
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