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  1. Dear Gurudev, what is the key to keep a good friendship?

    Not demanding anything from the friends, and telling them I’m here to support you.
    Just believe in one thing: what you need you will get. The giver is somebody else, so don’t demand love. When you demand love you are destroying love ...

  2. Dear Gurudev, I love you more than I have ever loved or imagined I could love. I divorced several years ago and recently realized that the love and affection that I feel for you, I would like to have that with my next partner. I fear that I will never find this.

    Well, we learn from past mistakes and we move on. Don’t ever put a label on yourself that I would never be able to do this, I would never be able to love. Don’t put such concepts in your mind. Take all that you get in your life as a gi ...

  3. Gurudev, I tend to hurt people whom I love and push them away. Why do I do so? I am scared of love now.

    Listen, these patterns will change, don’t be scared. If you love somebody, serve them. Don’t latch on to them, don’t police them. Be centered.
    You go and tell someone, 'I love you, I love you, I love you'. They say, 'Yes ...

  4. How to open my heart for more love?

    Don’t try to open your heart. You cannot do an open heart surgery on yourself. Leave it to me!

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  5. Gurudev, how much do you love me? How do I know?

    Leave it! Love cannot be measured because it is infinite. There is no boundaries to it. But knowing has a boundary.
    Ponder on it. ...
  6. Gurudev, how do we judge whether somebody loves us truly.

    From whomever you receive love, just know that it from the Divine. You are getting love from the one supreme energy.
    Your affection is also is toward that one energy only, and you are simply receiving its love through this person or tha ...

  7. Gurudev, How to be in a relationship without depending on the other, and without feeling possessive.

    Know that love is your nature. By nature you are loving, and relax. Give the person whom you love their freedom; their space.
    When you love somebody, you almost want to strangle them. You want to police them from morning till night. It may sound very ...

  8. Gurudev, I love my soul mate so much, that I fear that it does not leave much room for me to love the Divine.

    I have no experience of a soul mate.
    Why not? I don’t think there is any hindrance. If you have a soul mate, and you found some new love, you can as well see that as a gift to you.
    Your friends are a gift, your partner is a gift to you ...

  9. Gurudev, (A member of the audience asked a question which was inaudible)

    In my eyes, it is we who create these boundaries.
    Way back in the 80s, if I had to come to Europe I had to take so many visas. One visa for Germany, one for France, one for Italy, one for Switzerland, one for Holland and one for Scandinavia also. So ...

  10. Gurudev, what are the signs of true love? What is its form and how can we recognize it?

    True love is like what was between Lord Rama and Bharat. That which existed between Radha and Lord Krishna, and between Lord Krishna and Arjuna. It is pure, like the love between a mother and her child, between a husband and a wife.
    The love here exis ...
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