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  1. Gurudev, How do we deal with constant blame, especially from a dear one?

    See, you get used to anything that is constant (Laughter). So don’t worry about it. If someone constantly keeps blaming you, then do not care about it.
    It happens so often, when mothers constantly blaming their children, the children sto ...
  2. Gurudev, why should we love a terrorist?

    I am not saying you should love terrorists. You have to accept terrorists. Only when you accept him can you bring a transformation in him or her.
    These are people who are misguided. They never had an opportunity of education in love, in compassion and ...
  3. Gurudev, How to accept people who do bad things to me?

    If they do bad things against you, what can you do?
    If you don't accept them what other option do you have?
    If you don't accept them you will be upset, isn't it? Your mind will be disturbed, and when you are so upset, any decision you take, will ...
  4. Gurudev, there are certain occasions when I am able to accept people and situations the way they are, but on certain occasions I am not able to accept it. I don't know why. I don't know how to always accept people and situations.

    It is not necessary. You don't need to do it always. You don't need to accept them. Fight!
    What a big relief, isn’t it? You got the permission to fight! Go and happily fight, I tell you.

    See, you are not required to do anything which you cannot d ...

  5. Gurudev, how can I help people who have a lot of resistance in their minds?

    In the world, there are different types of people. We should accept them all as they are. There are people with resistance. It is okay. Let them walk at their own speed.
    On this planet there are rabbits, there are deer, and there are snails. So you ca ...
  6. Gurudev, I feel people don’t accept me because I am boring. What should I do?

    Don’t worry what people think about you. Have a goal and march ahead. If you have to walk alone then walk alone and achieve what you want to achieve in life. Then everyone will come along.

    I also thought that I was very boring because I could never ta ...

  7. How can I get purer? Even though I am doing Sadhana, Satsang and Seva, I do not feel very pure. When I see people who are arrogant, rude and proud, especially Art of Living people, I feel very sad. How do I get rid of this?

    You are saying two things. One you are saying that others are arrogant, others are not okay; and the other thing you are saying is you are not okay. This is just mirroring; you are mirroring in both sides.
    I would say if you feel that you are impure, ...
  8. Gurudev, hatred can be removed from the world by love, but how is it practically possible to love a person whom you hate?

    First don’t try to love them. Accept them first. Why do you hate them? You hate them because they do something very bad, right? You hate the action of a person, that’s why you hate the person. You hate somebody because he is a thief or a liar or a cheat. L ...
  9. Gurudev, you said accept everybody and don’t leave them, just because they are not like you. But you have also said, if the company is affecting you, you can take yourself away from that company. Please throw some light as it seems like a contradiction.

    Yes, life is full of contradictions, and all the instructions will be contradictory. That is why it is the truth. That is where vivek (discrimination) is essential. You have to balance, see when, where, what! ...
  10. Gurudev, In basic course we have learnt, ‘accept people as they are and accept the situation as it is’. At work, when I face humiliation from my superior on a daily basis to what extent should I tolerate?

    See you have already accepted him that is why you are staying in the job. This is a choice. Now, if you get a better job somewhere else then say goodbye. But if you are not getting any job and at this point you have to support your family then it is okay, ...
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