My dear Gurudev, sometimes the expectations of people around me and my own expectations from myself don't let me be natural. What to do to become natural?
Only sometimes, not all the time, isn’t it?
If it is all the time then I will give you a solution. Sometimes it is okay.
As you grow more in wisdom, as you see the dream nature of the world – that everything is like a dream, everything is passing, everything is changing, then events will bother you lesser and lesser.
The only way to be untouched by events is to see the whole phenomenon as a dream which is passing.