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  1. Children don’t care about their parents when they grow up. Where do we fail as parents and what is your advice to parents so that this situation could be controlled?

    That is why I say that it is important to instill the three types of trust in your children – trust in oneself, trust in the goodness of others, and trust in the Divine. A little bit of moral and spiritual values, and the way you treat your parent ...
  2. How do I know if my child is into drugs or just moody? 

    That’s why it is important for you to know them and their friend circle. You will get to know what they do, where they go and keep a tab on them, especially when they are in their teenage. Teenage is a very difficult time. Teenagers are undergoing so ...
  3. Please give guidance on parenting special children.  

    You simply serve them. Don’t pity them. You know, people with special needs, their soul is in a different state. They are not in a sorry state. They have come to this planet just to take service. With this attitude, you do service. Never have symp ...
  4. Sometimes dealing with kids gets so tricky that I tend to lose my patience. Every day I decide to be calm, but when the situation arises I am not able to control myself. What should I do?

    You can’t do anything about it now, you have to live life spontaneously. It is okay to sometimes lose your temper, never mind. You should leave a little room for imperfection in life, and start accepting. Some kids are there to teach you a ...
  5. How do I deal with the rebelliousness of my kids?

    Negative suggestions call for rebelliousness in the mind. If you say, “Don't do it”, then the mind says, “Why? Let me do it!” The mind calls for rebelliousness. But if you say, “You can do it, only you won't get the results ...
  6. There is so much competition in society that kids have no time to relax. There is a fear that they will not fit into society. How do we handle this situation?  

    You shouldn’t push them too much. You should teach them to relax. Music, meditation and some games will help. Take some time out to play games with your children, this is very important.  Tell your children 'Compete with yourself ...
  7. How to cope with children’s expectations when they compare themselves with others and demand the things that others have?

    You have to tell children that you can only give them this much and they shouldn’t compare themselves with others.It is important that you don’t give them any false hope. At the same time, we can give them a dream. If you ...
  8. How to deal with my child asking too many questions?

    Children ask questions and often they are not looking for an answer, they move on whether you answer or not. Children are not stuck in questions like adults. Adults get stuck in questions, and ask the same questions ten times; children don't care. The s ...
  9. Scientists discovered many things like all planets, distance between the Sun and Earth, etc., which are already mentioned in our Hindu scriptures. Is there a mention anywhere about black hole in our Vedas?

    Yes, there is the Nasadiya Sukta in the Vedas that says that in the beginning there was darkness covered by the darkness, and from there came water. You know every generation has had some knowledge. The ancient knowledge that we hear toda ...