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  1. Gurudev, How do I love my soul mate without getting entangled and attached?

    Just be more centered. I know it is difficult but you have to put some effort. ...
  2. Gurudev, I am good at making friends but bad at maintaining friendship, what do I do?

    You have identified the problem. Now the solution is to be friendly, but don’t try to be over friendly. Just be yourself and focus on yourself. Don’t go and log on to your friends all the time and think how to impress them and what their opinion of you is. ...
  3. Gurudev, Why do we get attached and how do we get over the feeling of attachment? It is very painful when the person whom we are attached to chooses to leave us.

    Remember, whatever is yours will always be yours. Whatever is not yours will come for a little while and then go.
    Wake up! Go deep in knowledge. ...
  4. Gurudev, But what about people who have betrayed me?

    Leave them and don’t be concerned. Uproot them from your heart. If they have betrayed you that is their karma, and your karma was to get betrayed and now it is over. The score has been settled. ...
  5. Gurudev, Jai Guru Dev, whom so ever I have loved whether my family or friends all have betrayed me and whatever I do for them goes wrong. I want to do something different and prove myself to them.

    What is the use of trying to prove yourself to them? If you attempt to prove something to them, it will only lead to a waste of energy. Leave it and move on.
    Instead do what you want for yourself.
    If you something good to prove to others, anyways ...
  6. Gurudev, What is the dharma of marriage?

    Ask your spouse! They will give you long lectures on what your dharma is and what you should be doing! (Audience laughs).Our ancient people spoke about saptapadi – the seven steps one takes in life. The knowledge was so scientific even 1,000s of years a ...

  7. Gurudev, What is the golden rule of a happy married life?

    Well, I am not qualified to say anything, but let me think. Why don’t you sit with those who are happily married? What I have heard is:

    Before marriage: a couple is mad for each other!

    During marriage: They are made for each other!

    ...

  8. Gurudev, If somebody is being guilty for the wrong done but may be because of ego He is not able to talk, what should one do?

    You being in victim consciousness and having rage and anger, does it help you any way to carry on your life? Absolutely not! Waste of time, waste of your potential and life. So we must forgive, forget and move on. You hurt someone in the past and somebo ...

  9. Gurudev, Can love happen twice? Husband and wife are already in a relationship? Can husband or wife start loving someone else?

    Tell me are you single or married? Ok, so you are single. If you are married and your wife tells you that she loves someone else, then how will you feel? (I will feel bad.) If you flirt with someone else, she will feel the same. Once you decide to get m ...

  10. Gurudev, How to decide that enough is enough? I have a child and want to go for a divorce.

    Ask yourself if you have given 100 percent? If the mind says no, and you have given your 80 percent or even 95 percent, then wait till you give your 100 percent. Even better, give your 101 percent for the sake of the children. A little sacrifice for the ch ...
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