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  1. Gurudev, an egoistic person drowns himself as well as his family due to his ego. You have said that love is the remedy to keep the ego away. But Gurudev, I do not feel any love arising within me for an egoistic person. Please give a solution for this.

    See, if someone is egoistic, then he is so because of his ignorance and lack of understanding. If you get angry at his ignorance and foolish behavior, then you too will become ignorant and foolish like him. That is why we should have compassion towards the ...
  2. How to deal with people with a very big ego, especially when their behavior is affecting life and others in a bad way?

    Let them have a big ego, why are you bothered?
    You nurse an even bigger ego than them, there ends the story.
    In fact you will find you have a bigger ego, I tell you.
    Let others have an ego, so what? Why do you sign on a contract of destroyin ...
  3. Gurudev, Is there a relationship between ego and possessiveness, and how do we get out of both?

    Yes.
    Ego, possessiveness, jealousy, anger, greed are all linked. They are linked to the ego. Now, how to get rid of the ego? This is a big problem.
    Actually the solution is very simple. Just agree to be crazy for one day. Just act like a crazy pe ...
  4. How do we deal with arrogant people in professional life?

    Boost their arrogance.
    If they are arrogant, there are two ways to deal with them.
    One is to just neglect them and ignore them. They will react very fast.
    The other is to boost their ego. Say, ‘You are so good, so nice. How can you be so effi ...
  5. Dedication and commitment

    Just like you run out of fuel in the car and you have to refill it again and again, in the same way your dedication and commitment runs out in the course of time and it needs constant renewal! You have to dedicate and rededicate again and again. Often peo ...
  6. Drop your self image

    Kashiap: "How do you make everyone happy?" Guruji: "Become me." Rama: "How do we become you?" What stands between you and me is your self image. Your self image restricts you from being me. Self image whether good or bad caus ...
  7. Ego And Self From A Different Angle

    Ego is that something, which has two aspects – the positive and the negative. The creativity in you – are the results of ego. At the same time, when you break down communication, when you isolate yourself, when you’re in tears, when you’re stressed – that ...
  8. The Other Side of Ego

     Ego is an impediment for a leader, wise man, merchant or a servant, but it is a necessity for a warrior, a competitor. A warrior is one who takes on challenges and commitment and stands by it. Ego makes one sacrifice oneself for a cause. Ego gives streng ...
  9. Ego

    When is there Ego? When you don't get attention. When you seem to be losing attention. When you get attention (Laughter). Ego causes heaviness, discomfort. It doesn't let love flow. Ego can be transcended by knowing the Truth; by enquiring " ...
  10. Singing, Communication and Ego

    There are three modes of communication: in head to head communication you talk, in heart to heart communication you sing, and soul to soul communication happens in silence. When you meet with people, often you communicate from head to head. When you are w ...
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