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  1. Are all relationships based on previous karma?

    Yes. Do you know, sometimes a soul who wants to come into the world, it picks up one man and one woman and then creates such an attraction between them. So these two people come closer, and the moment they have the first child, suddenly all the love d ...
  2. How to deal with people with a very big ego, especially when their behavior is affecting life and others in a bad way?

    Let them have a big ego, why are you bothered? You nurse an even bigger ego than them, there ends the story. In fact you will find you have a bigger ego, I tell you. Let others have an ego, so what? Why do you sign on a contract of destroyin ...
  3. Gurudev, after doing the Kriya, many times I find myself smiling unconsciously. When I am alone also I keep smiling. I myself don’t know that I am smiling. Everybody thinks that there is something wrong with me. What do I tell them?

    You should take a serious look at yourself if everybody thinks that there is something wrong with you. You must take a serious look. If everybody is saying that then it is not okay. You must consider their opinions. Here, I won’t say, don’t be ...
  4. I am in a relationship with a person who is too calculative about his actions. He is scared of getting attached as he believes that it might affect his spiritual growth. Is this right?

    Don't ask someone to prove their love for you. That is when all these things come. If we show too much love to somebody they do not know how to handle it or how to respond to it, isn't it? People get confused. There are many people who do not know ...
  5. If somebody has really done something wrong towards us, what should we do?

    When someone does something bad to you, think, why would they do it? One reason could be that they are not healthy. Do you see a fool or a mentally ill person as a culprit? No! If a mentally ill person says something bad to you, do you take thei ...
  6. Gurudev, you just said that we should not consider anyone as bad. If others treat us badly, how do we react to that?

    If others have a negative opinion about you, it is their problem, not yours. From your side, do not consider anyone as bad. By doing this, your mind will be clear and pleasant and your intellect will be sharp. Otherwise, the people whom you consider a ...
  7. How does the Karma of our parents and ancestors affect us? Are we also punished because of their bad karmas?

    Listen, if your ancestor has left you a house, is it not a boon for you now? Why are you asking such obvious questions?! They have earned a lot of money, toiled and built a home and they left it to you. You are enjoying their karma, is it not?! And if ...
  8. Gurudev, I am in a situation in which I am neither able to forgive nor forget. Please guide me what to do.

    Then just think about your death, that you are going to die. Even if you hold on (to the situation), still you will be finished; you will go away from this world. Now, do you want to carry that impression? Come on, wake up! Life is so sho ...
  9. Dear Gurudev, how can I help people who have a lot of resistance in their minds?

    In the world, there are different types of people. We should accept them all as they are. There are people with resistance. It is okay. Let them walk at their own speed. On this planet there are rabbits, there are deer, and there are snails. So you ca ...
  10. If others are feeling negative, how not to get affected by that?

    You be more centered and leave a little room for imperfection. Sometimes we don’t leave room for imperfection and so we get affected. If someone is negative, they have right to be negative for some time. Let them be. Give them some space. And I tell y ...
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