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  1. I feel jealous when I see my girlfriend interacting with someone else. I love her but these feeling of mine are bringing a distance between us. How do I handle this?

    I think this is very common. People feel this way even after getting married. If a new person comes to your house, will you welcome them and talk to them? Yes, you would. Now someone looking at you will think you look very happy. Suppose you are welcoming ...
  2. Does meditation help to come out of the grief when a closed one passes away?

    Meditation definitely helps you overcome grief when a close one has crossed over to other side. See, death is a very certain thing. Nothing is more certain than death. However you have lived your life, you are going to die. Successful or unsuccessful, f ...
  3. What is fear?

    Every seed has a membrane around it. That shell is there to protect the seed, but when you soak the seed in water, at some point the membrane breaks and the sprout come out of it. In the same way, fear is a mechanism around the life to protect it; at the s ...
  4. How to stop worrying?

    Know one thing – one day you are going to go under the ground. You will be finished. Everybody else will also be finished. What are you worried about? You are worried about money? You are worried about somebody’s opinion? You are worried about prestige? Yo ...
  5. Why do we have guilt?

    It is good to have a little bit of guilt, not too much. That little guilt can prevent you from committing the same mistake again. What is guilt? Intellectually you know an action to be bad, but you have a temptation to do that action because it promises ...
  6. How to overcome feelings of guilt?

    It is simple - listen to some knowledge. Pranayama and meditation are also one of the best ways to get rid of guilt. When you meditate it removes guilt, uplifts the energy and brings a change at a very concrete level. In Christianity, confession is giv ...
  7. Why is someone aggressive towards someone else? What is the reason for that?

    Stress. Someone who is relaxed cannot be aggressive. Sleep does not provide you that deep mental rest. Sleep only gives you physical rest. If you are agitated and you go to sleep, then even when you wake up you feel the agitation, but meditation removes th ...
  8. I feel like I have failed in everything. How do I deal with so much failure?

    Never think that you fail in everything. You failed basically because your thought process failed. Thought process fails because of over ambition. When you are too feverish or too ambitious then right thoughts don’t cross your mind. Negativity also does no ...
  9. I try to forget the mistakes I made in the past and move ahead. But the people around me keep reminding me of those past mistakes. What should I do?

    Smile and move forward. If they are not able to forget the mistakes of the past, then that is their problem. You should forget the mistakes of the past, just drop it and move ahead. You are not the same person as you were in the past when you committed tho ...
  10. After death what happens to the soul?

    Well, it gets ready to come back. It goes and stands in the line for another body. Millions are waiting to come back to the planet. That is why I tell people who have suicidal tendencies and want to kill themselves, not to do it. You have waited a long tim ...