I can forgive, but I cannot forget the hurt my partner has caused me. What to do?

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: It's very difficult, isn't it! When you are in love with somebody, pain happens. They are not responsible for your pain, you simply feel pain. Just look at them, what can they do? They cannot behave in a different way.. But your expectations are more, so naturally all this pain comes. And because pain is not likable to anybody, you start hating the person. If you are wise, you will see that they are just an instrument, that's all. You have to walk your path. Before you met them, you had a life. And afterwards also you will have a life. It is only the divine who will be with you forever.