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How To Deal With Hurtful People
Remember that every insult is an opportunity for you to exhibit the beauty that you are. Q: Gurudev, my husband hurts my feelings? How do I change his egoistic nature? Why do we try to change people? It is because they are hurting us. And the more we want ... -
Straight Talk With Gurudev- A Transcript
Q: Do you have any message for the Vedic new year? Know that you are ever new. We have such great talents. One can never underestimate the skills of people even if they are in rural areas or are uneducated. Human skills and talents are many folds!In Hindi ... -
A New Year Message
A Resolution to Take This New Year Happy Gudi Padwa, Ugadi, Cheti Chand, Navreh and Sajibu Cheiraoba! This New Year, take a resolution to forgive all those you are/were upset with or angry at in the past year, and start a new chapter with enthusiasm and n ... -
Children don’t care about their parents when they grow up. Where do we fail as parents and what is your advice to parents so that this situation could be controlled?
That is why I say that it is important to instill the three types of trust in your children – trust in oneself, trust in the goodness of others, and trust in the Divine. A little bit of moral and spiritual values, and the way you treat your parent ... -
How do I know if my child is into drugs or just moody?
That’s why it is important for you to know them and their friend circle. You will get to know what they do, where they go and keep a tab on them, especially when they are in their teenage. Teenage is a very difficult time. Teenagers are undergoing so ... -
Please give guidance on parenting special children.
You simply serve them. Don’t pity them. You know, people with special needs, their soul is in a different state. They are not in a sorry state. They have come to this planet just to take service. With this attitude, you do service. Never have symp ... -
Sometimes dealing with kids gets so tricky that I tend to lose my patience. Every day I decide to be calm, but when the situation arises I am not able to control myself. What should I do?
You can’t do anything about it now, you have to live life spontaneously. It is okay to sometimes lose your temper, never mind. You should leave a little room for imperfection in life, and start accepting. Some kids are there to teach you a ... -
Parenting Queries
How to deal with my child asking too many questions? Children ask questions and often they are not looking for an answer, they move on whether you answer or not. Children are not stuck in questions like adults. Adults get stuck in questions, and ask the s ... -
How do I deal with the rebelliousness of my kids?
Negative suggestions call for rebelliousness in the mind. If you say, “Don't do it”, then the mind says, “Why? Let me do it!” The mind calls for rebelliousness. But if you say, “You can do it, only you won't get the results ... -
There is so much competition in society that kids have no time to relax. There is a fear that they will not fit into society. How do we handle this situation?
You shouldn’t push them too much. You should teach them to relax. Music, meditation and some games will help. Take some time out to play games with your children, this is very important. Tell your children 'Compete with yourself ...
